I don’t often reblog other articles, nor do I tend to share quick picks from the internet at large. But some of these things are worthy of discussion, and I wanted to share them with you to provide an opportunity for that discussion. So here goes:
6 Ways to Love Single Women in Your Church
On one hand, I’m leery of being That Single Person Who Is Always Lamenting Her Singleness. On the other hand…these are all good ideas, practical ways of being charitable, and Lindsey has written them in a charitable way. I’ve been blessed with a loving and giving and supportive family, friends who ask, married friends who invite. But that doesn’t always take away the loneliness – especially as more and more of my friends get engaged and the circle of comrades-in-singleness shrinks. Do you think there’s anything she missed?
Why Miscarriage Matters When You’re Pro-Life
On the other side of the marriage fence, there’s the opportunity to bear new life, but it doesn’t always turn out as planned. I have at least six friends who have suffered miscarriages, some of them more than once, and it’s…well. It hurts. It’s hard to talk about, because what do you say? Death has made its way into the sphere where we expected life. I can’t imagine it. However, I’ve learned from those friends that the loss is real, the grief is real, and the care we take in discussing it also should be real.
Sometimes I ask the denizens of Facebook their thoughts or preferences or whatnot. Yesterday I asked them about their favorite prayers, and got all manner of fascinating responses! Some tend toward the short and simple: Lord, have mercy. Jesus, I trust in you. I believe; help my unbelief! Others go for the beauty of traditional prayers, like this one by Ephrem the Syrian: O Lord and Master of my life, give me not the spirit of sloth, meddling, lust for power and idle talk. But grant unto me, Thy servant, a spirit of chastity (integrity), humility, patience and love. Yea, O Lord and King, grant me to see mine own faults and not to judge my brother. For blessed art Thou unto the ages of ages. Amen.
Expect to see more mention of prayer throughout Lent. What do you pray for the most?
On a lighter note…
Between the drink menu at Zola Bistro, where I spent an evening with my housemates last week, and this fun map quiz, I have whiled away some pleasant times! Make a note of which drinks you’d like, should you ever come to call, and let me know how you fare should you join me in quiz-taking.